.But what Astrid does not understand yet is actually a reality that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who has 2 kids-- can vouch for: The reality that your connection with your moms and dads adjustments and also grows as you each grow older, and also hopefully right. "Your globe facilities around [your kids] when they're babies [and also] it is actually a great deal job but beautiful," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you truly miss out on that, considering that then you can't acquire all of them to accomplish everything you wish them to carry out, given that they begin creating their own thoughts, their own viewpoints." And ultimately, you end up in the area O'Hara, whose kids reside in their 20s and also 30s, discovers herself today, able to gain from her kids. "They are actually just such great younger men," she points out. "I'm certainly not their buddy, but I enjoy possessing talks with them and understanding just how they think of lifestyle.".